Sunday, November 18, 2012

Gratitude. Winding down the week. Memories ...

“Nothing is ever really lost to us as long as we remember it” ~ LM Montgomery, The Story Girl

  It has been raining here in Southern California. A fair amount. Most of those that I know, who are native Californians, love the rain because it rains here so infrequently.  However, I do not like the rain. At all. Must be my east coast upbringing and the amount of the rain that came beginning in October, followed by the snow and then more rain and then, a few months reprieve of sunshine and then ... the cycle began again.


My children will tell you that, for as long as they can remember, I say I feel a kinship to the Wicked Witch of the West, no not because I can be, well, witchy, but because of the melting part. That part I can for sure relate to.

Yesterday as the rain came down, I thought of my mom, who loved the rain. She loved nothing better then to get up in the morning, find it was raining, proceed to have her bagel and tea and then head back to bed. Warm jammies. Socks on. Hot water bottle. Heavy blankets and old movies. That was a perfect day for her.

 *My mom and I in front of 'it's a small world' at Disneyland 1967.  Is that a 60's hair-do on my mom or what?

The last few months of my moms life, she spent a lot of time in bed. In her cozy pajamas. She owned more pairs of cozy pajamas then anyone I have ever known. Or probably will ever know. By late spring here in LA, the rain doesn't come often. Lucky me but for those who love it, like my mom, not so much. One particular morning  my mom got up and thought how nice it would be if it were raining so she could stay in bed and watch an old movie. When she said that she wished it was raining, my dad, who adored her and would do anything, absolutely anything for her, asked her if she wanted him to go outside and spray the hose on the rooftop so she could imagine it was raining. When my mom told me that story, I though that quite possibly, is was the sweetest thing I had ever heard. And maybe, will ever hear.



This week, as we come upon yet another first, I am grateful for the memories. They allow me to smile through the tears that come unexpectedly. The memories allow me to remember. To never forget the beauty of the days with my mom.

6 comments:

The VW's said...

What a sweet memory of the obvious love between your Dad and Mom! Love and Big Hugs!

Anonymous said...

Now that was a sweet thing your father was willing to do Heather.

These firsts (holidays/celebrations) when a loved one leaves us are really hard & sad but try to hold on to the wonderful memories. They will carry you through.

I like your quote on this blog.

Take care

Bluebelle/Loraine



Loraine

Rochelle said...

Oh my the hose story brought tears to my eyes. How very sweet. That is love my friend. No wonder you are so full of love!
Love and hugs to you. Happy Thanksgiving. Remember all those warm moments. Your mom will be right there with you.

Lacey said...

What an amazing picture of you two at Disneyland! I still can't get over how much you look like your mom!

Rachel Douglas said...

I love your memory stories.

colleen said...

okay... so your mother allowed herself to jump into cozy pj's (mulitple pairs mind you) and watch old movies during the "work day" (with our shared upbringing in the northeast I know you know what that means!) simply because it rained... in Vestal NY where it rained constantly???? What an amazing mother and such an amazing gift?
I must share a very old memory of your mom while growing up in Vestal. Leslie told me of a "moment' when she arrived home from school and your mom had baked warm chocolate chip cookies for "all of you" to be eaten as soon as you walked in the door from school!. I did not know your mom well, but I knew then, and still know from the memories you record here (on this blog BTW which needs to keep going) that she loved her kids! And that love lives on.... in California and Ct. Happy thanksgiving Heather!